Gaining and Retaining Clients is Personal Business

Boarding an airplane creepily makes me think about Nazi Germany.  TSA and the airlines line you up.  They strip you of your personal dignity.  They poke, prod, and scan both you and your belongings.  Then in spite of everything they do to dehumanize and supposedly protect you, you may very well be settling into a death chamber rather than a means of transportation because all this activity actually does almost nothing to protect you.

It makes me angry both with the people who have caused this mass hysteria and the governmental agencies who are supposed to protect us.

In the process of “keeping us safe”.  The airlines have taken their already poor customer service and created an atmosphere completely devoid of customer service.  Each paying passenger is treated like an enemy combatant.  No wonder air travel is down.

With my previous airline experiences in mind you will understand my shock at the contrast in customer service I experienced on my recent cruise.  I almost wonder if every cruise employee is a graduate of the Disney school of customer service.  Each employee I encountered made eye contact, they smiled, and they spoke to me.

Getting Clients is Personal BusinessYes, they spoke to each and every passenger.  They greeted you every time your paths crossed.  They made sure you knew they really wanted to make sure you have the best time ever.  If there was any question you needed answered, something you needed help with, or anything they could do “for you” they did it.

Within a few minutes of boarding the ship I wanted to locate the on-ship internet cafe so I could purchase an internet package to use during the cruise.  However, I couldn’t figure out where it was or how to get there.  I happened to encounter the hotel manager for the ship and he personally walked me to the internet cafe.  Then he introduced me to the staff member there.  Can you believe it?

I was almost speechless.  Yet, this wasn’t some isolated event.  Time and time again I saw cruise employees go out of there way to do things for passengers to make certain there needs were met ASAP.

Most of the other passengers I met on the cruise were NOT first time cruisers.  I met people who were on cruise number 45 cruise… cruise number 60.  I met people who take a cruise 2 and 3 times a year.

Here’s the point.  When it comes to getting clients and keeping those clients the more personal you make their experience the easier and more successful the entire process.  We all want to be treated like human beings.  We all want someone to care about what we need.  Plus finding someone who puts your needs ahead of their own is absolutely refreshing.

I know you do really care about your clients and the people you want to become clients.  Just make certain you don’t allow yourself to get too comfortable with routines and procedures to the point your relationships suffer.  If you have employees make sure they truly demonstrate kindness and respect in EVERY client or potential client encounter.

If you’ve had an especially great example of a business making it personal for you please tell us about it below.

Coach Cheryl

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Important Sales Lessons Gleaned from My 3 Week Vacation

For the past 3 weeks I’ve been having the time of my life.  While I was off frolicking on the beaches on both coasts of Florida and cruising a few Caribbean Islands my business continued like clock work and my bank account grew.  Just like I planned…

What I hadn’t planned on were the valuable sales lessons I was reminded of along the way.  I’d like to share a few of those lessons with you this month because they are priceless.

When I was a corporate big shot I spent far too much time on air planes.  Consequently, I grew to absolutely hate flying.  Then the terrorists came along and made things even worse.  Finally, the airlines themselves completely forgot the concept of customer service treating their passengers like enemy combatants.  So I will go to great lengths to avoid flying.  In fact, if I never had to get on a plane again it would suit me just fine.

If the Airlines go Bankrupt They Have Themselves to Blame

So rather than flying my husband and I drove and cruised.  The first lesson I want to share with you came about because we drove.  We took interstates to get to Savannah, Georgia from Iowa.  We were going to Savannah simply because I wanted to eat at Paula Dean’s restaurant The Lady and Sons in downtown Savannah.  Then we took the interstate down to Florida.

You can't sell from the interstateAt that point we got off the interstate because you can’t truly experience this great nation from the interstates.  Interstates are specifically designed to get you to your destination quickly.  You get on make as few stops as possible until you get to your destination then you get off.  However, you know almost nothing about the areas or the people in those areas you drive through.

You have to get off the interstate to really experience this great nation.  There is so much beauty, so many wonderful places, and so many great people to meet in this country we forget just how much there is to see right here in the U.S.  Once you get off the interstate you begin to realize everything can change in as little as 80 miles.  The people, the scenery, and the business environment.

We often overlook or forget this when we approach acquiring clients.  We try to gain clients from the interstate, so to speak.  That just doesn’t work.

You try to gain clients from the interstate when you rudely interrupt the person you want to work with, you spew a bunch of information about you all over them, and then you ask them to help you by buying from you right now.  If you are acting like this you are coming off like a spoiled brat that needs their butt warmed.  The person you want to work with is wondering just who the heck you think you are.

It so easy to get locked into this fast moving, gotta get it done now mindset, and completely forget about what it feels like to be the other person.  It’s so easy to forget that no one is going to hire you until they have at least some form of a relationship with you first.  Ideally, you want to make a friend first and then earn a client.

Try This…

I want you to try a little experiment.  I want you to go to a local sit down restaurant you haven’t visited before.  From the moment you enter the restaurant I want you to make eye contact with the hostess and your waiter.  I want you to pay close attention to what they say.  I want you to smile at them and use their name.  I want you to say, “Thank you” when they bring your drink and your meal.  I want you to engage them by asking them something about them or about the area.

I’ve always done this without even thinking.  I didn’t start thinking about it until I began to notice how other people were treating their servers.  If you don’t already treat these people with the same respect and consideration you would treat any important person you’re meeting for the first time you might be a little surprised to find out just how well you get treated.  You might be surprised just how much these people begin to care about your experience.  You become important to them because you’ve demonstrated they are important to you.

Now translate this concept to the people you want to hire you.  What if you placed this much attention on them, what they need, on learning about them from the first moment of contact?  They should feel good about having an experience with you.

They should feel open to the idea of having other experiences with you because you made their first experience so pleasant.  They should feel they are important to you because they are.  They should feel they can talk to you because you’ve demonstrated you really listen to what they say.

This little experiment is so important because it will help you see how important it is to focus on others, to really connect with others, and to actually hear what they say.

Stop trying to cram your services down others throats practicing interstate selling techniques.  Start creating positive experiences, making beneficial connections, opening the door to making new friends.  The clients will follow.  When you change the way you approach earning clients you can make the process of getting a client shorter than it is when you approach getting clients like a typical sales people.

Coach Cheryl

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Sales Habits Scorecard

Habits are nothing more than actions repeated with little thought.  Habits can be very beneficial when they are the right habits.  I think when most of us think of habits our thoughts automatically focus on bad habits rather than good habits.

It never hurts to give yourself a little check-up to see how your habits are serving you.  Give yourself one point for each of these habits.  Be honest…

  • I get too busy and don’t have time to prospect on a daily basis
  • When I’m talking to a prospect I’m thinking about what I’ll say next
  • I complete my prospect’s thoughts when they seem to have trouble thinking of something
  • I interrupt or talk over my prospect when I have something important to say
  • I do most of the talking
  • I tell my prospect all about my offer in detail
  • When the prospect objects I explain why their objection is not valid
  • I like to mix things up rather than staying focused
  • I work best shooting from the hip rather than from well thought out plans
  • I like to ask lots of general questions when I meet with a prospect

How many points did you earn?  All of the habits listed above are poor sales habits that really hurt your ability to accomplish your goals.  If you gave yourself 8-10 points you need immediate help.  3-7 eliminating these habits would have a dramatic impact on your success.  1-3 overcoming these habits would make things a whole lot smoother.

Now review this list and give yourself 1 point for each of these habits…

  • I pay close attention to both the verbal and non-verbal cues from the prospect and adapt accordingly
  • I consistently prospect every day
  • I try to talk very little and listen very closely
  • When I ask questions I ask with the intent of understanding what they prospect wants and needs
  • My voice projects calm confidence when I speak
  • I only talk about things I already know are important to the prospect because they’ve told me
  • When the prospect is speaking I’m listening to figure out what’s important, what would help, what would be useful
  • I explore objections with the prospect
  • I help the prospect preview outcomes
  • I spend time developing solid plans and then take actions daily to implement those plans

How many points did you earn from this list of habits?  Obviously, this list represents good sales habits.  If you gave yourself 8-10 points you have very good habits and you are doing very well.  3-7 you have a good foundation and a few additional good habits would really help.  1-2 you would benefit tremendously from more good sales habits.

Whether you liked your score or not pick one habit you would either like to have or remove, and make a focused effort to work on that one habit for the next 30 days.  Repeat the action until it becomes automatic because that’s what makes it a habit.

Coach Cheryl

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Which is More Important When it Comes to Selling?

In the last post we talked about attitudes.  I pointed out that rather than trying to change your attitudes, which are simply the way you look at things based on your values, you are better served accepting your attitudes and using those attitudes to motivate the actions that produce results.  There is nothing wrong with you, or the way you think.  You are uniquely positioned to fulfill your dreams.

There are four core aspects involved in your ability to sell.  Attitudes is one of those aspects.  The other aspects include: knowledge, skills, and habits.

Knowledge, Attitudes, Skills, Habits

Most people think knowledge is the most important when it comes to sales.  Knowledge involves both knowing your product or service, and knowing what to do to produce the sales results you want.  Far too many people waste precious time and miss tremendous opportunities because they think they have to know every gory detail about their product or service.

You could sell all the products and services you want knowing little more than a bare minimum about the details of your product or service.  This is true because your prospects don’t care what your product or service is.  Your prospects only care about what your product or service does that’s important to them.

“Knowing” what to do to sell couldn’t be simpler.  All you have to do to sell your product or service is:

  • get in front of people interested in what you can do for them
  • set appointments with those people
  • help those people make a good buying decision
  • maintain your relationship
  •  earn referrals

There are literally thousands of books on selling.  You could pick any one and “know” what you need to know to sell, for the most part.  However; there’s a BIG difference between knowing what to do, and knowing “how” to do it.

Skill > Knowledge

That’s why skill is much more important that knowledge.  Skill is knowing how to do what you know you need to do.  Skill is where the disconnect happens.

Most people find it very difficult to read, hear, or watch someone else doing what they know they need to do, and then TRANSLATING that knowledge into their own skill set.  Skill involves:

  • taking a concept and applying that concept specifically to your needs
  • adapting words and actions to fit with your attitudes
  • confidence gained through successful repetition

In sports there are lots of players who know the rules, know how the game is played, and know what they are supposed to do.  Most players never get beyond an average skill level when it comes to implementing their knowledge of the sport.  The very best players develop superior skills not because they have greater knowledge.

The very best players develop superior skills because they work closely with a coach who is able to help them achieve greater skill levels than they ever could on their own.   The coach sees the players blind spots, they help the player build on their strengths and work around their weaknesses.  The coach serves as their rapid translator and skill refiner.  Players who work individually with a coach develop superior skills faster than those who don’t.

Coach Cheryl

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How Are Attitudes Impacting Your Sales Success?

A lot of people get caught up in the idea they need to improve their attitudes or the attitudes of others.  The perceived solution to a poor attitude is motivational training.  How well does that work?

The thing about listening to a motivational speaker or participating in motivational training is it is motivating at the time.  Yet it has almost no long-term impact.  This reality is through no fault of the speaker or trainer.  It’s entirely the result of understanding what attitudes are and are not.

Attitudes are nothing more than your world view or opinion of something.  Your attitude helps explain why you behave the way you behave, yet your attitude is not a strong predictor of future behaviors.  I realize that might sound confusing so please allow me to explain.

Even though you may have a positive attitude about the assumptive close technique your attitude does not predict the likelihood you will demonstrate that behavior in your sales conversations.  While you view the assumptive close favorably that positive attitude does not necessarily mean you will use it.

Here’s the big catch.  Motivational training or speaking tries to help you change your attitude or world view about an action or idea.  However, that’s not likely to happen and here’s why.

From birth to now you have had experiences.  Those experiences repeated over time, and the experiences that had a dramatic impact over you transformed into a set of values.  Those values are basically the standards you choose to live by because of your previous experiences and beliefs.

What you value transforms into a set of attitudes that create your personal views.  You behave the way you do to fulfill your attitudes.  An adult is highly unlikely to change their attitudes no matter what because those attitudes are based on what you value.  True changes in attitude only come about because of major events that completely change your beliefs and values.

So rather than trying to change your attitudes you need to realize your attitudes are the drivers that make you who you are.  There is nothing wrong with your attitude.  You simply need to use your attitudes in a way that best serves you.

There are 6 attitudes that cause you to behave in certain ways because those behaviors demonstrate your values.  You are driven to fulfill your top 2 attitudes.  These top 2 attitudes are the most important to you and for you.  According to Eduard Spranger the 6 attitudes include:

  • Utilitarian – you value usefulness and return on your investments
  • Theoretical – you value knowledge and truth
  • Social – you value others and serving others
  • Individual – you value position and power
  • Traditional – you value systems, order, tradition, and unity
  • Aesthetic – you value beauty, harmony, balance, and feeling

72% of all people who succeed in sales have a strong utilitarian attitude.  You value money and are driven to take actions that produce it.  However, any attitude can succeed in sales.  It’s just a matter of structuring the way you implement sales so you feed your values and attitudes to produce those sales results.

Coach Cheryl

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How Important is Closing the Sale?

If you listen to most sales trainers, Sales Managers, and countless authors of sales books… you would think closing is the most important skill in sales.  Yet, scientific proof demonstrates typical sales closing techniques are ineffective and down right damaging to your sales success.  Here’s why.

The closing techniques taught by those sales trainers and authors are very effective at shortening the sales cycle and increasing sales when AND ONLY when you are selling relatively low cost products.  When you try those same techniques to sell an expensive product or service you FAIL.  You fail because those closing techniques pressure the prospect to buy.  Prospects will NOT be PRESSURED into making a buying decision when there is a lot on the line.  In fact, once you attempt to pressure the prospect to close the sale you dramatically increase the odds you walk away without a sale today and with no hope for a sale in the future.

All because you crossed the line and destroyed your opportunity to open a relationship with the other person.

Here’s where the confusion really reigns.  Most people think closing is about pressuring the prospect into making a commitment to purchase.  WRONG sales breath.  That is not what closing is about.

Closing is Obtaining a Commitment from the Prospect to take an Action

 

Please reread that definition.  Okay, now that you’ve read that again I want to make certain you understand why this is the definition you want to live by.  Low cost products are sold in a single encounter.

 

You don’t go to the store to buy batteries and walk away telling the store clerk you have to think it over.  No; you go to the store find the right battery, take those batteries to the register for checkout, pay the clerk, and leave.  End of story.

 

High ticket product and service sales almost always involve a multi-step process.  The idea you would meet and ask for the sale on the first appointment is almost ludicrous.  It might happen on rare occasions but you certainly don’t expect that as standard practice.  And if you try to shorten the sales cycle by pushing to close the purchase then you also shorten the time it takes to get to “no sale” because you are forcing the issue and offending the prospect.

 

When you move into big sales you can usually anticipate the sales process will go through 4 phases.  In the first phase you introduce your solution and open the conversation.  In phase two you determine relevance and specific needs.  In phase three you demonstrate your ability to produce your solution.  In the final phase you obtain a commitment.

 

Another thing you will notice about the definition for closing that I’ve used here is that it isn’t specific to the sale.  Due to the very fact that large sales often involve more than one meeting you need a way to successfully conclude every interaction.  Each interaction should CLOSE by concluding with a plan for the prospect to commit to an action.  Both you and the prospect must have a clear understanding of what happens next at the end of every interaction.

 

The way you successfully close an interaction is by setting the right objectives for action.  Simply gaining agreement for a future meeting isn’t enough.  There are 4 ways a sales conversation is likely to close.

  1. Money in the bank – you gain a client and earn the sale
  2. Next steps -  the prospect agrees to take an action that moves them closer to a purchase decision
  3. No commitment – you didn’t get the sale and the prospect did not agree to an action that moves the sale forward
  4. No sale – you will not be doing business together

Money in the bank and next steps are successful objectives for closing the interaction.  No sale is also a success because you know you need to move on and find another prospect.  No commitment is an absolute failure because you are either allowing the prospect to string you along, or you are prolonging a sale that should have concluded already.

When You Hear…

 

 ”I need to think about it”

“Why don’t you stop back next month”

“I’ll call you when we need to take things further”

These are all examples of no commitment.  You can’t allow a conversation to conclude this way.  These statements are big clues that should tell you that you did not do your job.  A prospect will not make a commitment to act unless you:

  • help them identify an immediate need for what you offer
  • answer their questions and concerns
  • review how they benefit
  • recommend a next step

Obviously, you can’t recommend a good next step if you don’t have a clear understanding of what your best next step options are.  If you haven’t already, list the actions a prospect must take to do business with you.  Never forget each action they take should improve your relationship not harm it.

Coach Cheryl

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Persuasive Selling

The very word persuasion evokes different feeling in different people.  Sometimes those feelings are very negative because you think persuasion is manipulation.  Manipulation and persuasion are polar opposites like black and white.

Manipulation and coercion have no place in persuasion.

Persuasion is Not a Technique

 

Persuasion is not a technique rather it’s a way of thinking… an approach.  Persuasion creates an opportunity for two people to come to an agreement of thought in a mutually beneficial way.  That means before persuasion can exist there are certain underlying circumstances that must already exist.

 

The first condition that must exist is a search for a solution to an unmet need.  In other words, what you have to offer must be relevant for your prospect.  Your prospect must perceive you have something they don’t, plus they must be open to exploring how you might help them get that because it’s something they are already looking for.  Just like you can’t hypnotize someone and make them act like a chicken against their free will, you can’t persuade someone do to something they don’t want to do.  Thank goodness.

 

One of the biggest challenges you have when talking with prospects is lowering their defenses so they are willing to share ideas with you.  One of the easiest and most powerful ways to make it possible for your prospects to openly share ideas with you is to simply ask questions.  Whether you ask open or closed ended questions is less important than asking questions with the intent of learning more about the prospect and their needs.

 

When you try to ask questions that lead a prospect to your way of thinking that’s manipulation.  Those types of leading questions immediately trigger a prospects defenses.  Those types of questions are dangerous and should be proactively avoided.  The questions you ask should be more like the questions you’d ask someone you care about to determine what they think about something.

 

For example, asking “What do you see as the greatest challenge in commercial real estate today?”  Is a safe question because it allows the prospect to share their thoughts and concerns.   This is a good question because the intent is learning about the prospect.

 

In contrast, asking “How much more valuable do you see sales coaching than sales training?”  Is a dangerous question because you are trying to lead a prospect to an answer YOU want them to give.  A question like that doesn’t help you better understand the prospect and their needs.  It’s a leading manipulative question.

 

The questions you ask are critical because the only way you can truly understand the needs and desires of your prospect is through the answers they give to the questions you ask.  Therefore, you need to develop some really good questions.  When you are thinking about the questions you need to ask to really understand your prospect be sure to phrase those questions carefully so they are considerate and understanding.  The prospect shouldn’t feel like they are sitting across from an interrogator.  They should feel like they are having a great conversation with the best listener they’ve ever met.

 

This give and take conversation will help you come to an understanding of thought.

 

There are a lot of things you know you should do.  There are a lot of things you know you could do.  However, there are only a finite amount of things you know you will do because you are motivated to do them.  That motivation comes from an internal trigger that forces you to take an action.

 

You have to know what would trigger your prospect to take action.  The only way to find that out is to ask.  You might simply ask, “How would you decide to do something like this?”  Notice you aren’t specifically asking how they would decide to buy from you, rather you are just asking in general how they make the decision to act.  Their criteria for action is another condition that must exist.

 

You might quickly discover they are just thinking about this, and don’t have any intention of acting now.  Does that mean you’re out of luck?  Not necessarily.

 

Again you can’t come to an agreement of thought until you fully understand the prospect’s needs and desires.  That means you need to know, “What happens if nothing changes?”  As you explore that possibility with your prospect all of a sudden something they were “just thinking about” can immediately transform into “something I need to take care of now”.

 

Once you have full understanding then the last condition required for persuasion exists.  Human nature dictates that we will not disagree with ourselves even when we are wrong.  So one of the most persuasive ways to reach a mutually beneficial conclusion and commitment is to simply present your solution to the prospect based on their own words.  Including their words, their reasoning, their logic, and their criteria for acting.

 

Coach Cheryl

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One Big Reason They Don’t Buy and You Can’t Sell

Have you ever bought something that turned out to be a BIG mistake?  I sure have.  I’ve made purchasing mistakes from inconsequential junk to costly products and services.

When you buy some doo-dad that’s supposed to do something, and it turns out the doo-dad is worthless you throw it away without thinking much about it.  You might feel upset about it, but you didn’t risk much so you aren’t all that worried about the risk when you make the purchase decision.

If you’ve ever made a mistake like that, a mistake that wasn’t a big deal, and you’ve also made a costly mistake you already understand there’s a big difference in how that decision impacts you.  What you may NOT realize is the reason the impact is so very different.  The reason the impact is so different is not limited to the amount of money involved.  Understanding this reasoning will help you understand how to overcome this challenge with your potential buyers.

When it comes to larger investments the money required to invest is a concern; however, it is NOT the BIG concern that holds people back and keeps them from making a purchase decision.  What holds you back and keeps you from saying “yes” is a fear of…

PUBLIC HUMILIATION

 

Yes, it’s the fear of public humiliation that prevents you from saying “yes” to the buying decision.  A buyer can easily choose to make a $50,000 purchase, yet squirm over a $5,000 purchase and here’s why.  Quit often the buyer has sole decision making authority for the $50,000 purchase.  If the buyer is disappointed with their purchase decision later no one but the buyer ever has to know.  In contrast the $5,000 purchase may involve other people.  I don’t necessarily mean other people will be involved in the purchase decision I mean people who will be involved in the outcome of the investment.

 

Those people will use the product or service.  Those users will formulate an opinion about whether the purchase was a good decision.  Therefore, this purchase decision is more public and a bad decision is more visible.

 

The big reason prospects often have trouble with a buying decision is because they fear making a public mistake.  They don’t want to have to answer for a poor decision and face public humiliation.

 

Countering the Fear

 

Before your buyer can make a “yes” decision you have to counter their fears.  The only way to counter their fears is to provide them with a logical argument for why this is a good buying decision.  They need you to help them formulate their argument because this is how they will explain their decision.  They don’t want any holes in their story.

 

They want to know if things don’t turn out like they planned that any reasonable person would have made the same decision.  They literally want you to finish the statement, “Any reasonable person would have decided to make this purchase and here’s why…”

 

So before you presume money is the reason a prospect isn’t buying face the reality the real reason may be fear of making a publicly visible mistake.  Then help your prospect develop a logical argument for why any reasonable person would make this decision.

 

Coach Cheryl

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I’ll Bet You Don’t Even Realize You are Selling This or How it Impacts Your Sales

We get so stuck inside our own heads we often overlook critical things that make or break our sales success.

When we get our message wrong it’s because we communicate what we want, what we think is important when our potential clients want our message to be about what they want, what they think is important.

When we think about what we are selling we take it literally and think about the particular product or service we offer.  However, you can’t sell that product or service by itself.  The product or service you sell comes with something very important, something you often don’t pay enough attention to, something that has a major impact on the sale.

Every sale comes with…

YOU

 

Whenever you are selling a costly product, and especially when you are selling a service, that sale comes with you.  Your soon to be clients know that.  They know they aren’t just buying a product or service they are buying a relationship with YOU.

 

So if you know your product or service meets or surpasses the needs of a potential buyer, the potential buyer tells you they see the value, yet they still won’t commit perhaps YOU and the idea of a relationship with YOU is what is holding you back.

 

Act Like a Sales Person & YOU Lose

 

This is exactly why you can’t come off like an ordinary sales person.  Most people do not think well of sales people, and they don’t want to start a relationship with someone they don’t like being around.  Your potential buyer will be weighing the perceived value of starting a relationship with you as part of the investment required to purchase.

 

They must perceive a relationship with you as mutually beneficial.  They must see you as a value added part of the purchase decision.  They shouldn’t feel like they lose and you win if they buy.

 

Whether you realize it or not your relationship with your potential buyer started at the first point of connection.  That point of connection may have been a phone call, a handshake at a networking event, an ad, etc.  However they first became aware of your existence at that moment the relationship started.

 

At this point, the point of the sales conversation, the potential buyer is weighing whether they want to continue a relationship with you as part of the bargain.  Common sense tells you that you want to maintain relationships with people who:

  • are pleasant to be around
  • are willing to help
  • put your needs ahead of their own
  • are committed to your success
  • treat you with kindness, respect, and integrity

I’m sure you’ll have no trouble adding to this list.

Now think about how you demonstrate those things in each connection and encounter.  Think about how you can increase your value to your new potential client, and then how you’ll keep the value going after the sale.

Coach Cheryl

Do You Own the Single Most Important Skill in Sales?

Before you can answer that question you would have to know what that skill is.  I’ll get to that in a moment.  First, I want to talk about a common deadly mistake made by people trying to sell their products and services every day.  Especially people who previously sold a low cost product.

I Already Know How to Sell

 

Unfortunately, many people who start a business who have experience selling low ticket products believe they have an unfair advantage because they already know how to sell.  Yes, you know how to sell that product yet if you are now selling a service or a high ticket product the knowledge that led to your success will lead to your failure now.

 

There’s a big difference between selling a service and selling any type of product.  Plus there’s a big difference between selling a low cost product and an expensive product.  Product sales are transactional and experiential whereas high ticket product and service sales are relational and emotional.

 

Features Do Not Create Value

 

Product knowledge can play a significant role in product sales because the customer has a mental checklist of features they want, and features they don’t want.  The product with the most relevant checks on the customers mental checklist is likely to gain the sale.  The only thing standing in the way is cost comparison.

 

Compared Cost is NOT the Same Thing as Perceived Value

 

When you are selling a product and you can rattle off features like a machine gun it can work for you because you are rapidly hitting and missing the prospects buying buttons.  When you try the same approach selling a service or higher value product you make a deadly mistake that works to your disadvantage and costs you the sale.  The more feature bullets you fire the less interested the buyer gets, and the more likely you are to lose the sale.

 

Prospects are very familiar with what a product is supposed to do before they ever decide to buy one.  They know that some versions of a particular product do more things they want while others do less.  Typically the prospect has experienced the product either through a previous purchase or through someone they know having one.

 

High ticket products and services have far more “features” than a prospect ever wants to know about.  Most of the possible features don’t add value they only add confusion, and confusion leads to “no sale”.   The potential buyer cares far less about how they get what they want than about simply getting what they want.

 

The single most important skill in sales is the ability to help a prospect uncover and imagine the perceived value of ownership.

 

As the cost of ownership rises so does the prospect’s uncertainty.  Uncertainty is reduced and perceived value is increased when you help the potential buyer discover:

  • How your offer produces or eliminates exactly what they are looking for
  • How much faster, easier, etc. this will make things
  • How the value of getting what they want is far less than the required investment

These discoveries must be made by the potential buyer with your help.  They must say these things in their words not hear them in yours.  You must help them feel their current frustration along with the feelings of removing it.

I’ve always said you would do far better knowing next to nothing about the product or service you are selling if you’d just meet with people and get to the heart of what they really want.  Once you know that, then and only then, can you develop a plan to help them get that and have them eager to hear it.

Sometimes, like in this case, the damage is in the details and the gold is in the heart.

Coach Cheryl